What You Always Wanted To Ask Me #3 - Sensual Domination
Sensual Domination Secrets: A Kinky Q&A You Can’t Miss!
After my VIP Companionship and Milking Massage questionnaires set tongues wagging (and other things tingling), it’s time to dive into another deliciously wicked topic—Sensual Domination.
From the satisfying crack of my whip to the whispered confessions of submissive desires, my world is filled with power plays, teasing torment, and deeply intimate surrender. Curious? Of course, you are. Let’s get into it.
Do you have a favorite piece of equipment, or is it like picking a favorite child?
I adore my Obedience/Gyno Chair—it’s intimate, versatile, and puts me face-to-face with my submissive. There’s nothing more delicious than watching his eyes roll back as I guide my strap-on deep into his ass while stroking his cock at the same time. That moment when pleasure overtakes him? Perfection.
How did you pick your safeword “pineapple”?
It’s a cheeky nod to the romantic sex comedy Trainwreck, where a character dramatically announces: "I just want you to know, my safe word is ‘pineapple.’" It stuck, and now it’s my little inside joke.
Do you secretly judge people based on their choice of kinks?
Absolutely not! The world of kink is vast and beautifully diverse. As long as it’s safe, sane, and consensual, I’m here to celebrate all forms of pleasure—no judgment, just enjoyment.
What’s your favorite reaction when someone experiences something new for the first time?
That wide-eyed transformation when fear turns to pure, mind-blowing pleasure. When they realize, Oh… I LOVE this!!! That moment is intoxicating.
Is there a type of music you play to set the mood—or do you let the whips do the talking?
I love setting the mood with trip-hop—a sexy fusion of hip-hop, reggae, jazz, and electronic beats. The deep bass mimics a heartbeat, creating the perfect rhythm for pegging. That said, sometimes the sharp crack of my whip is all the soundtrack we need.
What’s the oddest piece of equipment or furniture in your dungeon?
My Lovense dual-sided sex machine. I can attach different dildos, fucking a man from behind while he sucks my strap-on up front. The best part? I control the speed and depth.
Have you ever had a client show up with something unexpected—like their own props?
Oh, absolutely! Some bring their favorite gimp mask, dildos, or cock rings, while others use poppers to loosen up for my horse dildos. I always appreciate dedication to the craft.
Do you have a favorite “punishment” that secretly makes you laugh inside?
I love the way men squirm when I tie down their balls or torture their cocks. But my ultimate guilty pleasure? A ruined orgasm—watching their face twist in disbelief as they spill without the satisfaction of release. Delicious frustration.
What’s the most surprising thing someone has requested during a session?
A man once had a fantasy where I was his queen, judging whether he should be hung or executed. Needless to say, we worked out a safer version of his fantasy… and yes, he’s still alive.
Do you ever have to explain the difference between fantasy and reality to clients?
Oh, all the time! Especially when a man fantasizes about eating his own cum—until he actually cums. Then suddenly, he’s a terrified little kitten backing out. Only the truly dedicated submissives follow through.
Have you ever been asked to roleplay something so wild you had to Google it?
Yes! When I first started sensual domination, a client asked for a ruined orgasm—and I had no clue what it was. I thought he was into something really perverted. Turns out, I became so masterful at ruining orgasms that this same client later proposed to me. Now he’s my submissive husband.
How do you handle it when someone is clearly nervous or unsure?
A little chat, a little teasing, and my feminine wiles will have them melting in no time. I know exactly how to make a man relax and surrender.
What’s the most creative excuse someone’s given for canceling a session last minute?
Men are not creative with excuses. And since my deposit/cancellation fee is steep, they don’t try that shit with me. If I had a dollar for every dead grandmother or tragic pet loss, I’d be richer than Elon Musk.
Have you ever had a session interrupted by something mundane, like a delivery?
Oh yes! Mid-session, a flower delivery arrived. Since I didn’t want to lose momentum, I answered the door in sexy lingerie. You should’ve seen the delivery boy’s face. Priceless.
What’s your secret to transitioning from “in session” to regular life mode?
A glass of Hennessy Pure White, a trashy reality TV dating show, and a foot rub from my submissive husband. Five minutes in, and I’m out like a light.
What’s your favorite real-world humiliation task?
Oh, I love sending my submissives on a special quest—they get one hour to find a store and purchase a cucumber, condoms, and personal lube. But here’s the catch: no self-checkout. They must take a selfie at the register, awkwardly holding their items while a cashier rings them up. Watching them squirm as they complete their mission? Pure entertainment. And trust me, the reward (or punishment) for their bravery is always worth it.
What’s a common fantasy men have that never plays out the way they expect?
Oh, the classic "I want to be totally dominated!" fantasy. They think they want zero control—until I tell them they don’t get to cum at all. Suddenly, they want their power back. Too bad, baby.
What’s the biggest misconception about sensual domination?
That it’s all about pain and cruelty. No, no, no. Sensual domination is about psychological control, teasing, edging, and keeping a man at his absolute limit—without ever needing to raise my voice.
What’s one thing all first-time submissives should know before booking a session?
Surrender isn’t weakness—it’s a gift. Trusting me with your body and pleasure means I’ll take you places you never thought possible. Just relax, obey, and enjoy the ride.
What’s the longest you’ve ever edged someone before finally letting them cum?
Oh, I once kept a man teetering on the edge for three whole days! He came back every afternoon, desperate for release, only to be tortured and denied over and over again. On the third night, I let him stay overnight—building him up one final time before I finally allowed him to cum. By then, he was a trembling, whimpering mess, completely wrecked from days of aching need. The look on his face when he finally exploded? Absolutely priceless.
Did I answer all your burning questions, or do you have something even kinkier in mind? Drop your questions in the comments or book a sensual domination session with me to find out firsthand. Until then, stay naughty.
